To be or not to be

To be or not to be

NLP is the study of the structure of subjective experience. And that can be disturbing!In December I completed a bike tour with my son starting out in Ho Chi Minh and ending in Bangkok (with some aborted stretches due to breaking my wrist the day before we set off)En...
Chaos

Chaos

Chaos should be regarded as extremely good news. Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche Taken today from the book When things fall apart by Pema Chodron (Recalling a manager’s sarcastic reaction to my statement ‘there is no failure only feedback’ that they had had a lot of feedback...
A Flood of Love

A Flood of Love

I’m sitting in my hotel room looking out over the misty horizon and mix of stark white and glass buildings and derelict apartment blocks interspersed with clumps of palm trees. I look down on the streams of the cars below. Hard to believe that these same roads were...
Letting go is a part of life

Letting go is a part of life

‘Coaching happens in the way that we speak to our children and our grandchildren. It happens in the way we respond to our partners. It happens in the way we respond to the people who serve us as we move about our daily lives, it happens at work, at home, in schools,...
Live the paradox

Live the paradox

“The best thing for being sad”, replied Merlin, “is to learn something. That’s the only thing that never fails. You may grow old and trembling in your anatomies, you may lie awake at night listening to the disorder of your veins…you may see the world about you...